Max at 18 months old.

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Max had his 18 month well check yesterday.

He is 24 lbs and 33 inches long.  He’s in the 75% in height and 35% in weight.  I wish I had that body type!!

He totally showed off for Dr. Filippo without us even asking him to do things.  He sang “happy birthday” and said Dr. Filippo’s name!!! Well he said “Peepo” when we said “Dr. Filippo” so close enough.  The good Dr. was very impressed.  :)   Max still can’t really stack 3 blocks without them tipping over, he can’t really feed himself with a spoon without making a humungous mess, and he still doesn’t like to drink from a sippy cup that much…but those are things to work on.  I try not to get too caught up in those “milestones”.  I just keep trying to encourage him and teach him new things.  He’s advanced in some areas, average in others, and behind in the ones I named above.  It’s okay though.  I’ll just focus on the amazing things he already knows how to do.  He can talk and says four word phrases clearly, he sings all the time and in tune, and he can kick a ball really well!!  He can almost jump too! He loves to “jump”.  I don’t know why.  He’s also SUPER strong.  I always see him carrying stools, chairs, large toys, my 100 lb bag, pillows, etc.

The other day he said, “there you are mama!” and it was so cute.  He can now say “I love you” but only when we ask him to say it.  Does that count?  Hehehe, say “I love you mama!!!!!” ….”aww such a good boy!”.

Best thing of all is that Max shows great compassion already.  He’s so loving.  I know most babies are like this because they are…babies…but…I’m gonna go ahead and assume he’s going to be a kind, caring, open-hearted, and compassionate young man.

We’re going swimming again today.  I’m getting into the groove of being a SAHM a little bit better each day.

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Breastfeeding My 17-month-old

I felt compelled to write this post because of the cover of TIME and everyone’s reaction to it.  This is exactly what TIME wanted to do, cause a stir.  Probably because their magazine has been fading in the background a bit.

http://www.time.com/time/covers/0,16641,20120521,00.html

I just want to give my 99cents on the subject.

For my friends who know nothing on the subject, just know that it is our society that made this a touchy one. In many other countries, it is no big deal.

I HATE how this topic is so divisive and how some people are quick to place a breastfeeding mom in the “breastfeeding nazi/attachment parenting/hippy mom/breast is best” community and a non-breastfeeding mom in the “don’t care/lazy/didn’t try hard enough” category.  Maybe some women do fall in those categories but it’s the same as being racist or prejudiced.  Moms and babies come in all shapes and sizes.  I’m sorry but your cookie cutter does not work for me and my baby.

I am not TEAM BREAST or TEAM BOTTLE, I’m just team LOVE.  (and TEAM JACOB).

When I was pregnant I barely gave breastfeeding much thought.  I wish I did because it was so hard for me and didn’t stop hurting until after the 6 week mark.  Max was hospitalized with jaundice and was introduced to formula.  He was breast and formula fed for the first year of his life.  Now my baby is almost a year and a half and I am still breastfeeding him.  I still do it because he wants to.  If he didn’t throw a fit anytime I refused to nurse him I would have stopped by now.  I would definitely miss it, but I personally want to stop.  For anyone to say it’s creepy or SELFISH…I tell you to SHUT THE F…RONT DOOR.  It is anything BUT.

Although I am very happy to have breastfed my baby this long because I believe it has helped Max and I’s amazing bond…I have wanted to wean him for the past couple months but haven’t…because of Max.  I don’t want to be selfish.  I do have my selfish reasons for wantthough.  One is because I’ve nursed him to sleep his whole life and I want him to sleep through the night soon.  This doesn’t mean he doesn’t get a good night’s rest.  This just means that he rustles around half asleep until he can find comfort from me again 2 or 3 times a night.  I want to be able to leave him overnight at his grandparents once in a while without him keeping them up all night.  It’s okay for a woman to be selfish sometimes…at the right time.

(ANYONE WITH ‘been there done that’  WEANING TIPS FOR ME PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CHIME IN!)

My point is, I don’t see how breastfeeding can ever be selfish.  It is not selfish for me or for a mom who is still breastfeeding her 4 year old.  I think if you breastfeed at all it is automatically NOT SELFISH.  If you don’t breastfeed even for a little bit just because of the fact that you don’t want to, now THAT is selfish.  If you don’t breastfeed for other reasons, that is NOT selfish.  How can you really know every mom’s story if they don’t tell it to you?  Just quit judging people!!!!  I just can’t stand the comments on articles and blogs that are rude and ignorant.

I do not see myself as better than other moms who did not breastfeed as long as me.  I am proud of myself because it takes work and patience, but I actually feel pretty stuck.  Not miserable, just stuck.  I don’t know how to stop and not “traumatize” my baby.  He is so strong willed right now.  I don’t know if I feel stuck because of society and mean people telling me I shouldn’t be breastfeeding anymore or if it’s for my own personal reasons.  Probably a little bit of both.  I should ask my grandma who breastfed all NINE kids until they were 2!  OOH AN EPIPHANY!  Haha.

For the women who are still breastfeeding or who breastfed past the age of 3…wow you must have great health and great breasts to still be producing milk!  Or do you do it mostly for the connection and comfort?  I have no idea because I have not been there.  Take note for people who have “not been there”…don’t talk smack about something you haven’t experienced because your ignorant opinion SUCKS.

FACT: The World Health Organization recommends breastfeeding until AT LEAST 2 years old.

That should speak for itself.

So everyone that thinks so-called “extended breastfeeding” or even just breastfeeding is creepy you probably are just uneducated on the subject through no fault of your own. However, it is your fault that you choose to be close-minded and then flaunt it online. Just IGGnant.  I’m just annoyed.

I’m PRO NICE MAMAS!!

I’ll end with one of my favorite photos of Max and I.  Taken by his pseudo Godfather, Joselito.

Max at 6 months “dede-ing” from mama.

I will miss this so much someday!

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SAHM I AM.

I never thought I’d be a SAHM.  Not that I thought negatively about it, I just literally NEVER THOUGHT about it until I had Max.  One week and 2 days have passed since I’ve officially become a SAHM (Stay At Home Mom).  Come on, get with the lingo ;)   This time it’s for real.  Last time it lasted less than a month and then I went back to work part-time…haha.  This time it is REALLY necessary because we don’t have childcare.

Max and I need to get settled in to a routine so our days don’t just float by.  If any stay at home moms have any tips for me…PLEASE help me out.  It’s been kind of tough so far and I already miss going to work PART-TIME (NOT FULL-TIME).   I made a schedule for myself that my dear husband literally LOL’ed at. He wasn’t supposed to see it!

This isn’t it exactly but It included:

Monday:  Laundry.  Clean Bathrooms.

Tuesday:  Put away clean laundry.  NO T.V for Max!

Wednesday:  Put away all clean laundry (still).  Visit Dada at work and Golla grandparents. (sometimes)

Thursday:  Cook something.  Vacuum/Sweep upstairs.

Friday:  Organize something/ANYTHING.  Vacuum/Sweep downstairs.

Saturday:  Grocery.

Sunday:  Family Fun day.

(Deep cleaning is a different schedule)

It’s hard to follow this schedule while just doing the basic everyday dishes and tidying up, get in his 2 naps, get out of the house to run errands, play, or have a play date, and still spend quality time with Max!  He definitely doesn’t make it easy either.  He likes to tear the house up.  I think I’ll get better with it over time.  Or I just have to accept the fact that I am NOT ONE OF THOSE PERFECT MOMS!   Do they really exist?

Short Max update:

He’s mimicking us so much right now!  A lot of what we say or do. He senses when Nick and I are arguing, even if we are fake arguing, and he will “cry” and usually say “mama? mama!”  He’s my little bodyguard.

He always asks to be carried right now by saying:  “upanddown, upanddown!” To him it’s one word and it means, “UP”.  Hhaha.

When he hears anyone speaking in Tagalog he’ll mimick the sounds like, “lallalalla” really loud!

He can slide down the BABY slides all by himself!  (not the outdoor ones, but the ones at the mall)

He can really sing and keep in tune.  He can even copy simple rhythms when drumming on something.  It’s so cool!  I don’t know if this is normal, but I’m convinced he’ll be musical somehow.

I know, typical proud mama.

PS. Nick and I ARE SO GRATEFUL for the people who cared for Max as if he were their very own this past year and and a half.  My grandma (Nanay), my mom (and dad), Nick’s mom, and our back-up sitters:  Tita Betty, Tita Mally, our friend/Max’s Godmother “Cooks”, and sometimes Tito Andoy and Tina.  Thank you!!! :)

 

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My little boy at 17 months.

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For those who are wondering…most refer to babies by month age instead of years  up until 24 months.  Then they become TWO years old.  This is because babies are still developing at the speed of light and a month makes a HUGE difference.  Aiggght!?  I recently got an “OHHHH you’re one of those moms” comment from the security guard at work.  He said, “just say he’s TWO!” I said, but he’s not even ONE AND A HALF!!!  It makes a world of a difference when your baby is growing into a little boy!  I’m relishing in these baby days.

ANY. WAYZZZAHHH.

Soooo this is long overdue.  Just a little update on Max’s growth and development.  Today he’s a little over 17 months.

Favorite food:  shredded cheese with steamed broccoli, mac n cheese, sinigang, mandarin oranges, and of course…banana.

Favorite songs:  Happy Birthday Song, Babies (from Yo Gabba Gabba), Do Re Mi

Favorite toys:  School bus pulley thing, Sesame Street School house, the stick for the sliding door, balls, his fave stuffed animals (ellie, blue bear, blue tooth, H.H, ranger, and Tigger)

Favorite Books:  First Day of School (Little Critter), Let’s Go to the Farm (Fisher Price-Little People), Go Dog Go (Dr. Seuss)

New skills:  Climbing, drinking from a sippy cup without coughing, much better coordination when playing with his toys, can open ALL our drawers now, arranges pillows, spins in circles

New words/phrases:  Bayoo mama (bless you mama), bobot (robot), I missed! (when trying to shoot the ball),  there you go, other side, Appybandaybubun (happy valentines day bun bun), AH-POLE (apple), cheese, nose, eyes, teeth, rhino, drink, eat, hot, Ewwwww, peeeaaase (please), work, home, moon, “OH MAX!”, and more!  He also knows a lot of people’s names and does more animal sounds.  He makes up things himself like when I ask, “what does the hippo say?”, he replies with “HI!!”  I guess hippos say hi!  All the other animals make some type of noise but the hippo says, “HII!!!”  It’s so random and cute.

He still looks for mi-ming all the time but not as much as a couple months ago.  A few days ago he SANG “HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU”  for the first time!  It was more like “Appy behdayyy dey du” but super close!  This is his first song with more than one word!   He used to sing “babiess, babiessss” or “ba, ba, bababa”!  I was so shocked!  He’s trying to talk a lot more now too.  He still argues and complains ALL THE TIME but he also gives a lot of hugs, smiles, and especially kisses so he’s still the sweetest little boy ever.  He kisses everything.  When I was flushing the toilet after I went pee, he said “bye bye pee pee” and would have kissed the toilet seat if I didn’t pull him away!  He kisses the floor, his food, animals, his stuffed animals and of course people.

He ADORES his whole big family and can call a lot of them by name now…or at least tries.  Family parties are his FAVORITE and we go to a lot of them.  He also loves all of our close friends and gets super excited to see everyone…especially his ninang who we see often.  We’re kind of mall rats, but who cares! They have play areas, food, and Nordstrom…perfs.  He loves kids and babies and makes them play with him, haha.  He still LOVES it when mama, dada, and baby are ALL together.  Nick has been working a lot so Max is super attached to me, which is completely normal and common…but it only takes a few minutes for Dada to win some love from him again

He can climb almost everything now…and he does.  He also loves to turn on the ipod all by himself and dance!  He has great rhythm!  I notice more so when he is singing or drumming.  Hmmm, maybe he’ll be a musician.

Whatever floats your boat silly billy goat!

Ps.  YES, I’M STILL breastfeeding and co-sleeping.  I seem like such a hippy when I think about how others may perceive me, but  I’m just doing what feels natural to me.  Can’t wait to breastfeed a little bit less though at night.  This child is like a hungry crocodile and I know, well I think, he’s not hungry!  Planning to wean him in a few months.  We’ll see how that goes.

That’s all I can think of for now!

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Happy Easter Seeester!

Easter weekend was filled with egg hunts, friends, and family.  How it should be!

Saturday we went to the Woodland Park Zoo for the “Bunny Bounce”.  Met up with friends…sad I didn’t get a photo with Maricel and kids.  However, I did get these pics:

Egg Hunt #1

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It looks like he’s going for the yellow egg…but guess again.

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Then we took a little break.

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Met up with Grace, Jaden, and Donny for Egg hunt #2

Can’t get a picture with both of them looking everrrr!

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Except if we trap them in their strollers :)

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Ps.  We also saw some animals.  A HUGE BEAR, penguins, a tiger…and I think that’s it.  Ha.

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Easter Morning:

I was so excited to give Max his little Easter basket :)

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Then we went to church, of course!  I can’t say that I paid enough attention.  Max sees church as a big playground with lots of friends and family to visit and corners to explore.  I guess that’s what a 16 month old is supposed to be like, but CHILD! SHHHH!!!  Max also got to do his 3rd egg hunt of the season.  HE LOVED IT.  Didn’t get a picture though.

After church we had a late late lunch at my parents house with the Mostrales family.  More egg hunts, lots of food, and TOO MANY PICTURES.

My boys and I.

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Took a ton of pictures including the annual Easter picture of the “kids” on the back porch.

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FOOD!

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Easter Dinner with the Golla side:

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SO BLESSED and I thank God every single day.

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There is no such thing as a QUICK TRIP with a baby.

It’s just impossible with a baby to go somewhere for less than an hour and a half.  Or is it just me!?

I know I’m a slow poke…but now I’m even a slower poker!!

Well here is a short glimpse of some recent “fun days”.

COSTCO ON A SUNDAY = Madness!!

Here’s me and the ever famous GIGANTIC COSTCO BEAR.

Nick made me return it…but he came back with the giant moose.  Not as cute…so I made him return it.

(giant moose…mini picture…dunno)

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Then we proceeded to see the bear EVERYWHERE.  It was so funny!!  To us at least!

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Literally…everywhere.  POOR GUY.  So tired.

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COSTCO EVEN HAS SWINGS!! SWINGS AND SAMPLES…what more can you ask for?!

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OOPS.  I turn away for a split second and this is what happens.

He’s a quick little bugger.

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OH, there’s Mr. Bear again!!! HA!

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AND THAT WAS COSTCO….for 2.5 hours.

I Can’t make a quick trip anywhere if my life depended on it.

Next funday was…

FUN with NINANG!

Ninang means Godmother in Tagalog.  Max LOVES his “Niniii”.

We had a late lunch at Pho Cylco…which turned out to be a 7 hour outing.  Which included Target and Ninang’s house.  Nothing is quick when we’re with Cooks…hahha.  Is it cuz we’re having so much fun?!

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NEXT FUNDAY WAS….

drum roll please….

FUN WITH JORDY AT WHOLEFOODS!!! 

(This day actually came before COSTCO and PHO-DAY…oops!)

Here’s April and baby Jordy :)

And here’s the terrible two at it again!

Whole Foods is the new spot.  Play area + Yummy Food = Happiness for kids and parents.

Almost beats Trader Joe’s…almost.  No.

TRADER JOE’S FOR LIFE!!!!! haha.

Soooo… after April and Jordy left, I decided to do some grocery shopping. Of course! I’m there anyways! Then Babies R Us and Nordstrom Rack are JUST right cross the street. There goes another 2 hours on top of the 2 hours spent at Wholefoods.  4 HOURS!

I really cannot make a quick stop anywhere. Ugh!

Hey we’re taking our sweet time and smellin the roses.

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EGG-CITEMENT!

Every year our family has an Easter egg decorating day.  For the past 2 years I’ve hosted this “event” at our house.  I LOVE DYEING EGGS.  I think eggs are so cute to begin with…and decorating them just makes it SUPES CUTES.  To top it off I get to do it with the best family ever.

Gotta give a shout out to PINTEREST.COM for inspiring me to do the following.

“BUNNY BAIT”

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SO MAD when the M&M’s poured out of the container as REGULAR COLOR M&M’S.  Who the heck packages REGULAR M&M’S in cute pastel containers with m&m’s dressed in pastel bunny gear?  Shouldn’t the candy inside be PASTEL?  I think YES.  Oh well.  We gobbled it up anyways!

Here’s the only photo I got with ALMOST everyone.

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We…or I guess it was just me…SILK  TIE DYED EGGS!

Click the link below for the tutorial:

http://www.ourbestbites.com/2012/03/silk-dyed-eggs-aka-tie-dyed/

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This one turned out pretty dang cool.

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This is a Christmas Easter egg.  Hahah…this was the only tie my dad could find to donate to me.  It was an ugly Christmas present tie…now a beautiful egg!  The “gift” images didn’t transfer clearly onto the egg…thank God.  ;)

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Here’s some of the eggs done by the kiddos and big kiddos:

You can see Max’s Elmo egg.  He thought it was a ball.  END OF STORY.

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Here’s a close up of some:  You can see on the left a rubber banded egg that I did, and one that my cousin Marc did.

The dunnies shown helped to guard the eggs.

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Despite broken eggs, spilled dye (*ehem Leanna), and Regular colored M&M’s…we had a EGGCITING jolly good time!

(Had to stick that word in somewhere)

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